hi, It feels strange to write to you about something as life-changing as adoption instead of talking with you in person. The funny thing is, even though we've never met you, we feel that we know you. We believe you are courageous and filled with love for your child—wanting the best life possible for him or her. First, let's get something out of the way. Yes, we are a gay couple. Maybe not the first thing you had in mind when you imagined adoptive parents? Even so, please read on. We may surprise you. We've been preparing to be parents all our lives. life with tim + tom Tom is a middle kid of six children, growing up in a close-knit neighborhood where kids rode bikes and played in the sprinklers. His family home was a circus—filled with music, laughter, and friends. Tom taught kids how to swim when he was in high school and still gives lessons to his 9 nieces and nephews. They vacation together and all say "Tom is my favorite uncle." Tim is the youngest of 8 kids, raised on a farm where he spent every summer barefoot, playing in creeks, making hay, and reading everything he could get his hands on. He coached soccer as a camp counselor and started babysitting when he was 11. His nieces and nephews began arriving when he was 13 until there were 13 in all! He is no stranger to bottles, diapers, bedtime stories...scraped knees, hurt feelings...acne, Our children will have a similar family life full of friendship, discovery, imagination, and play. Now our summers are spent hiking, bike riding, running around the lakes, and traveling. During the winter we go to museums, work on our house, volunteer, watch movies, and visit family. We dream of sharing these activities and more with our children, and would look forward to making your child the center of our world! <We're guardians of our best friends' daughter> welcoming with open arms We have been together 15 years and are still best friends. Our circle of support is wide. For Tom's last big birthday party, more than 150 friends and family came to celebrate with us. We find it a joy to be a part of the hustle and bustle of many friends with young children. We babysit often and are godparents or guardians of several nieces and nephews. With all the aunts, grandmothers, and friends eager to take part, our children will have many women in their lives. Our house is on a quiet street along a creek where kids come to play from blocks around. Even though we're in the city of Minneapolis, there are lots of trees and open space. On either side of us are 4-year-old girls who use our lawn as a play space. Our neighborhood is known for its block party and good public schools. We attend church on Sundays and look forward to introducing our child to a community of faith.
While we cherish community values and family traditions, we also hope to open the hearts and minds of our children to the essential goodness in ALL people. Diversity is important to us. Providing unconditional love and a strong spiritual life will allow our child to grow into a secure and happy person at home in the world. We both work in marketing. Tim's friends describe him as creative, patient, and capable of finding the good in anyone he meets. Tom is known for being loyal, outgoing, and a great judge of character. We always call to sing Happy Birthday to friends and family on their special day. We have both dreamed of being dads but fate has kept us from pursuing that dream until now. Financial stability will allow us to give opportunities to our children in education, travel, and a secure home life. We have a lot of love to share. we'd like to talk with you Thanks for taking the time to learn about our desire to start a family. Our hearts go out to you as you consider your options. We are open to listening to your thoughts about whatever relationship you may want to have going forward, and would love to hear your dreams for your child's future. With love, Tim + Tom Please contact us toll-free at (888) 501-8686 or
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